cupcake vs. sheetcake

The sheetcake vision of a girl group: not whole without every member, should a member of the group stray, the cake no longer makes sense and that piece of cake, while delicious, has ruined the beauty of the cake.

The cupcake vision of a girl group: a cupcake makes perfect sense on its own and perfect sense together. When put with other cupcakes, a really fun picture can form, and should one cupcake be removed, the other cupcakes can be rearranged to still be a fun picture and makes sense no matter if one of the cupcakes strays or gets eaten or whatever. Each part makes sense as an individual delectable treat or as a whole cake.

When confronted with the idea of... "the only time a sheetcake personality is okay is when you're in a relationship", i answer, even in a relationship, girls, you can still be a cupcake cake, you don't have to be a sheetcake--because perhaps the other girls in your group are cupcakes, and you don't want to have your sheetcake ruined just because they may stray. you're delicious and beautiful with or without the group...the group just makes it more fun and prettier! Its a complement, not a necessity.